Friends usually understand what you are going through because you can talk to them about everything. It sucks when they stop paying attention to you for their boyfriend because they think they love them and will be with him forever. You really aren’t being a good friend when you flirt with your boyfriend all the time and never want to hang out with your other friends. You especially aren’t being a good friend when you decide not to tell your other friends (even best friends) whats happening in the relationship. If you ever fight with your boyfriend and you don’t go to your friends to talk about it, your being a terrible best friend because you guys have always confessed problems before to each other. Now your best friends won’t even go to you for help because they can’t trust you anymore. Instead your friend with the boyfriend pouts and keeps everything quite. Also you aren’t being a good friend when your friends are trying to tell you something but you don’t listen because you know they are right. If this is you with the boyfriend, Yes, you just aren’t being a good friend at all because of everything you have done and caused.
Sometimes you have to take responsibility for everything you have done. Even if you meant to do it, or maybe you didn’t mean to, but you still need to take responsibility for it. Your friends aren’t the ones that have changed. It’s all you. You caused a big awkward gap between four best friends who always used to have so much fun together. Now everyone sits awkwardly while you decide to flirt and sit on top of your boyfriend. This is not OK. High school shouldn’t have this much drama. You need to get a life and stop hanging out with your boyfriend for a change and get your head on straight. Stop blaming your best friends for causing the problems and especially STOP being moody towards them when you don’t get your way to hang out with your boyfriend!! You used to have friends. Then it went down to the two of us because we refused to let our best friends go. Now all you have is your boyfriend because you didn’t realize your mistakes. People make mistakes but what it really comes down to is do you except that you made a mistake or do you blame your best friends for every bad thing that happened? Take responsibility for all the mistakes you made because other wise you will end up doing again to a different group of friends and to your next boyfriend.
When friends give you advice you really need to take it because we weren’t trying to hurt you, only help. You hurt everyone because of what you and your boyfriend did. Good luck making new friends. Stop pouting when you aren’t around him and for sure stop being needy. No matter how much he thinks he likes it now he won’t like it after six months to a year when you follow him around everywhere, so he will end up dumping you. Then you will just find another guy who will help you through the “hard time”. That is unacceptable. Just STOP.